Have you had a moment forced the whole heart to grow or retract?

If so, did you get better or have you never quite recovered from it? Did your father have a heart attack? Were you told as a child how cruel the whole world can be? Who it was that put you here and why? Did anybody really put you here at all? Like how to cope with tragedy and pain?
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Jonna:
I try explaining that stuff similar to this won t happen if I had my own car but he doesn t go for it.
(25 January 2017)

Jonna:
I assumed that this meant he could pick me up even though it would be late, which made him furious when he had to drive out of his way that late.
(25 January 2017)

Jonna:
I believe he thinks that if I have the freedom of having my own car I will never be home.
(25 January 2017)

Jonna:
He makes up excuses like it would be cheaper for me to buy my own car and get insurance on that than switch the insurance with my grandmas.
(25 January 2017)

Jonna:
There is now doubt that there is a car available for me to use but my dad does not trust me with it.
(25 January 2017)

Jonna:
My grandma is 92 and can barely use her car anymore, plus she goes away to Florida for half of the year.
(25 January 2017)

Jonna:
I am 17 now and I have had my license for over 6 months.
(25 January 2017)

Kathi:
How can I ask a girl if she likes me along with telling her I like her?
(25 January 2017)

Kathi:
I want things to lead up to it and I don't know how.
(25 January 2017)

Kathi:
She's really sweet, kind, and all but I'm just nervous to ask because I'm never liked back along with me not knowing how to ask or how to bring it up without just going right into it.
(25 January 2017)