This has all led me to acknowledge that I might have an over-parenting problem

RANTS FROM MOMMYLAND: When it's not about the kids, it's about the parents. It occurs to me that I only have five years left to teach her everything she needs to know to survive on her own. The older my kids get, the worse I become. I feel the urge to insert myself into situations that I know I should stay out of.
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Eladia:
I really love him and when I tell him that I love him he thinks that I don't.
(2 December 2016)

Eladia:
I have never stepped out of our relationship, but he has caught feelings for another girl and he has let other girls hug him right in front of me.
(2 December 2016)

Eladia:
But still accuses me of cheating.
(2 December 2016)

Eladia:
He always takes my phone and goes through everything and he finds nothing.
(2 December 2016)

Eladia:
He says that I still love him and why do I care about him and I need to get over him because he's dead.
(2 December 2016)

Eladia:
My guy bestfriend of 5 years recently passed away and I have this jacket that he bought me before he passed away and my boyfriend hates when I wear it, I also have a shirt with his picture on it and he hates when I wear that too.
(2 December 2016)

Eladia:
I'm not allowed to let guys ask me questions, and i'm not allowed to help boys in my class who needs help even if i'm the only one in class that knows the answer.
(2 December 2016)

Eladia:
When I do say hi he gets really mad and accuses me of liking the boy just for saying hi.
(2 December 2016)

Eladia:
He tells me I can't have any guy friends, I can't sit by any boys even if they sit at my table he'll tell me to move, He doesn't even let me say hi to other boys.
(2 December 2016)

Eladia:
I'm 17 and he's 18. I noticed things began changing about 3 months into our relationship.
(2 December 2016)