Are You Desperate for Discernment in Your Mothering?

So what is discernment and how do we help our children be discerning? So how can we know the difference between a battle and a war? How do you choose your battles carefully? I wish I had a formula that I could write here for you. The truth is a lot harder than that.
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Karry:
I would walk by her or into a room and she looks at me and I look at her and she immediately looks away.
(28 September 2016)

Ngan:
Why am I so selfish in my relationship?
(28 September 2016)

Ngan:
All of last year I was changing for her and asking her to fix things as well but she wouldn't.
(28 September 2016)

Ngan:
The problem is is that I didn't date her for looks at all I dated her for her personality and the way she made herself seem but she switched up after I had caught feelings which messed things up.
(28 September 2016)

Ngan:
We started dating in the beginning of 2015 and everything was good until a quarter of the way through I realized she lied about who she was just to get me to date her.
(28 September 2016)

Ngan:
There was a girl that I had talked to off and on earlier that year but nothing too serious until one time we started talking and she seemed like by dream girl.
(28 September 2016)

Ngan:
Well in the fall of 2014 I was a college freshman with the same mindset.
(28 September 2016)

Ngan:
I realized at a young age that I had trouble focusing on two big things at once so I learned to ignore things that weren't priorities and in doing this I stopped getting into relationships.
(28 September 2016)

Ngan:
I'm gonna try and give a quick break down but alot went into the situation so bare with me.
(28 September 2016)

Lavelle:
I can't choose who I like the most?
(28 September 2016)